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A stimulating dialogue! I am not broken. I choose to believe my innate nature which is of divineness is perfect, whole and complete as I and all others have been created to be. It is the human ego which shrouds and shadows our divinity and explains why it may appear that we are not living in Utopia if we all are divine beings by nature.  The purpose of human spiritual evolution, including your own soul purpose, is to becoming a fully expressed Divine Being, to embody love in human form, through dissipation of our egos. This is a major concept I present in my upcoming e-Book “Emotional Healing through Spiritual Awakening.”
Many times I hear from people they are lonely. I have heard it from friends, clients  students and fellow workshop participants. Some people feel lonely because they are not in a relationship. Some people feel lonely even in relationships.  Some people feel lonely because they have no family or children. Some people feel lonely even if they have six children. It runs the gamut. Many times the root of one’s loneliness goes deep. It is because of unhealed, unaddressed emotional wounds from childhood. I encourage you to journal and contemplate this if you have a tendency to feel bouts of loneliness.
I feel if you truly believed in a Higher Power, you would not feel lonely. You would have faith and trust that some Divine Intelligence, Source, Creator, God, Allah or whatever is the term you use is always there with you. Those who feel lonely often want it in a physical form from a fellow human being, yearning for touch, affection.  and companionship on a physical level. An invisible, energetic etheric Being that you cannot hold or kiss does not fulfill this need. Most of us have been conditioned to only value that which we can discern with our physical senses. Hence, this is why many do not utilize their intangible intuition or develop their psychic senses.
At times, I may be physically alone but I am never lonely. As I increased my vibration since my spiritual awakening in 2009, I began to develop higher consciousness and a deepening knowingness of the metaphysical phrase “We are all one.” In any moment I can connect to beautiful Mother Earth and my divinity and I do that. The sky, including the marvelous cloudscapes, the amazing trees, the songs of the birds and all of the other Mother Nature’s offerings bring me back home to who I am, who we all are, Divine Beings of Love.  This is our core essence.
Presence and the eyes to appreciate are these simple gifts which are given to you and available all the time are needed.  A consistent practice of quality meditation will help you to attain these levels. If you are not living in the present moment and caught up in your egoic monkey mind, you will miss the Divine Beauty that is all around you and which can sustain and keep you emotionally balanced.
When you feel loneliness, it is because your conditioned ego has erroneously created separateness.   It makes you feel you are separated from everyone and everything else.  Believing in this makes you feel lonely and at times results in desperation. This can lead you to choose the wrong partners and make other detrimental life decisions.
We, including our ego, are a product of all that has happened to us. This includes the attitudes, beliefs and other energies we have absorbed and internalized as a baby into adulthood from our parents, caretakers, families, ancestors, society and media. These molded us. Sometimes, it wasn’t beneficial and do not serve us well.
When you become spiritual awakened, you begin to take back your power and that which you have been indoctrinated with consciously and subconsciously will have less of an influence on you, your thought patterns,  intentions and decision making. You begin to shift into higher levels of awareness and consciousness and are no longer the lamb following the flock.
It is your human ego that creates false beliefs of separateness, lack and limitation. It is your ego which sees yourself as broken. Think of the connotations associated with the word “broken.” That does not serve one well to refer to oneself or others as broken. It is not flattering and certainly not a compliment. Why view yourself in this shadow in this fragmented way?
Many of us have been conditioned to look out into the world which is how our physical eyes see. Only a small percentage of the population have developed their “inner sight” and turn inward to see themselves in their True Nature of Divineness and Compassion.
I choose to empower myself to live a life of joy, peace and love, an endowment we all have. I choose to stand in the strength which is within me. I cannot live in this high vibrational manner if I see myself as broken or alone. I choose not to see myself as victim of my life circumstances.  I choose not to wallow in my pain.  I choose to triumph over my life adversities, big and small. 
It is important to be noted that the acknowledgment and processing of the low vibrational emotions you are feeling is essential. Denying, ignoring, repressing and suppression your true feelings will ultimately result in future problems such as blockages and constraints in your energetic field, prevention of reaching your potential, hindering your creative flow and even physical ailments of discomfort, pain and disease. All of these lower your inner vibration. When you lower your vibration, your spiritual ascension to higher levels is impeded. Who needs or wants that? No, thanks, not for me! I consciously choose otherwise. 
You are what you focus on. I choose to focus on being grateful for all the beautiful blessings in my life instead of focusing on my “brokenness,” pain, sorrow, grievances and conflict. It is not that I am not aware of these. It is not that I don’t feel these from time to time. Of course, I have had occurrences of these in my life and observe others experiencing these as well.  It is not that we don’t have personality aspects and traits  that we can strengthen or improve upon.  These are all part of our humanity.
But my focus is elsewhere, not on what I don’t have or what is missing in my life, but on the good, abundance and blessings in my life because above all, I deserve and choose a life of happiness.  As you do.  I choose not to languish in low vibrational feelings because it is not good for me. It moves me further and further way from joy. Having this understanding and applying it is transcendence and enlightenment. 
No one or no life event is going to dullen my sparkle! I am not going to allow that.  I am not going to give away my power. The amazing will of the human spirit! It all lays in what you are choosing to think. Amen.  This is solely (soul-ly) your responsibility. No one else’s. No one can hand this to you. No one can do this for you as much as you want to make someone else responsible for your happienss. You need to make a conscious decision to live differently in this light then apply it EVERY day with every interaction. 

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